I need a job like many other people in this world. But please, my family is desperate for money. My husband works at UPS and makes $100 per week and our rent is $600 per month plus our car insurance is $150 per month and the gas and electric bill is $180 per month, and we need food and our food stamps keep getting cut off and we're trying to get our daughter back from social services, she is 1 year old and the only thing left we have to do is finish baby proofing and repairing the house and between the cost of rent and repairs and all the bills we are broke. My dad is helping us with the bills until I can get a job so please someone give me a job! I've turned in hundreds of applications and haven't recieved a single call back. I'm very good at computers, I do designs on adobe photoshop along with photoediting, I'm proficient with Microsoft office Excel, Powerpoint, Word, I know how to delete viruses and cookies, I can set up wireless internet connections, I can fix networking connectivity problems, and I was an intern at Hypernova videogames aka Evil Genius Video games. I'm very good at math and reading, I have a hobby of learning other languages (I'm only fluent in English but I know some Japanese, Spanish, and French). I'm also very good at training cats and dogs, I've had 3 jobs as a cashier, and I am also a very good sales person when it comes to electronics. I have no previous experience selling computers, mp3 players, etc. employment-wise, but I have had multiple personal experiences. One, for example, was when I was at Best Buy with my dad getting a new computer. I overheard this guy talking to his wife about how he wasn't sure what kind of Ipod he wanted. I, personally, prefer Zunes. I've dealt with Ipods and I've dealt with Zunes so I walked over to him and I explained how although Ipods may seem better, they commony glitch, they're overpriced because the main ';operating system'; of the device takes up more memory than the Zune ';operating system'; program does. Thus allowing you to put more songs and videos onto the Zune. In addition, with the Ipod if you want one that has Video, Music, Pictures, Games and Radio like the Zune you would have to spend $300-$400 and the screen wouldn't be as large as the zune screen, and it would most likely break within a year. Whereas a $256 Zune has Radio, games. video, pictures, etc. and you get over 80GB of memory and you can access more of the 80GB of memory than you would be able to access on a 80GB Ipod. Later, when my dad and I were at the front of the store checking the reciept for our purchase, we saw the same couple at a cashier paying for a zune.
I also used to intern at Dougals Catering as an assistant cook, and I interned at Hill Middle School as an 8th grade math teacher for the kids who had the most difficulty in math.
I have no college degrees, I have my high school GED, I do not have my Microsoft A+ certification but I know enough and will continue to learn just please someone give me a job! Please, I have no tickets on my record other than a wrongs to minor ticket that was given to us the day our daughter was taken because our house was messy even though we showed proof that the exterminators had come just beforehand and when they come to spray you have to move everything to the centers of each room. Please I love my daughter and I need her home with me! Please, someone please give me a job and I promise you won't regret it! I am a hard worker and all I need is a break from standing once an hour because the MCL ligaments in both of my legs are torn and they've been torn for the past 4 years, I have my medcal marijuana license but I do not come to work under the influence of my medication, thus why I'll need to sit for 5-10 minutes every hour-half hour. Please, I promise I will work hard just please someone give me a chance and please give me a job! Please e-mail me at monicamorse57@yahoo.com if you have a job opening.
Thank you
Monica Amber Ashley Stanley
DOB: 07/1990I need a job please!?
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Friday, October 22, 2010
My boyfriend needs to get it together.?
Hey I am 23 years old and a college student. My boyfriend is 1 month older than me and we have been together for almost 5 years now. He is about to graduate and find a good paying job but for now we just recently went from living together to back at our parents houses. This would be ok but we have a 8 month old together, which forced me to grow up fast. I am employed and he recently quit a great paying job because the hours were too crucial. So I am the only one working right now, when I propose that he follow up with another job offer he doesnt jump at the opprotunity and he loves the thought of living back with his parents rent free. I myself am not really the type to feel comfortable doing this for a long period of time. He plans on living with his parents till we can save up for a down payment for a house which will take a long time cause he hasnt started job searching and wont till summer ends. I was recently on the computer and spotted that he went on this website that has comments about passing a drug test. Yes, he has been smoking marijuana behind my back again. Now you and I both know that you wouldnt be able to get a good job and support your family if you cant pass the drug test. He has been babysitting while I work hard and when I come home hes out the door to go to his friends house(where he smokes). Or hes going to a party every week, and i feel that it's every other day that he does this. Now I come home and do what Im supposed to do, he doesnt cook, clean, do laundry at all. I am left to do this when I get home plus take care of my son cause he nags me that he himself hasnt been out the house in days. So out of guilt I let him go after letting him know how I feel about it. He has no plans of marriage anytime soon and all he wants to do is act like a child. Should I leave? To open his eyes that he needs to be responsible?My boyfriend needs to get it together.?
Hmm, well your doing things all on your own right now, so yeah, dump him until he can prove he can be mature. Don't try to control him into doing things. Not saying you are cause I have no idea. But he does need to learn that there are consequences for not helping out.My boyfriend needs to get it together.?
You haven't left yet? What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for him to grow up and grow a pair as in take care of his family? Look as long as he is smoking weed and possibly whatever else he may be doing. His addiction to weed is only prolonging or delaying his emotional, spiritual, vocational, development to real fatherhood. Whenever a person places their drug of choice before the happiness of their family, their career goals and aspirations They are addicted. Additionally a side effect of weed is amotivational syndrome. The person seems to loose almost all of their drive to achieve, they seem to be almost lazy, and forgetful. They usually become more complacent and will procrastinate more and more
As soon as he gets help with his drug problem and deal with the challenges of adulthood and you get help for yourself to stop enabling him the sooner the two of you can move forward with your lives. And your child's life will be better also with a father that is there for him in all aspects of his life.
yep, not worth having him around sorry. he's not doing anything for you or your son so if he can't pull his socks up, ditch him. sounds like you are already surviving without him just fine.
Hmm, well your doing things all on your own right now, so yeah, dump him until he can prove he can be mature. Don't try to control him into doing things. Not saying you are cause I have no idea. But he does need to learn that there are consequences for not helping out.My boyfriend needs to get it together.?
You haven't left yet? What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for him to grow up and grow a pair as in take care of his family? Look as long as he is smoking weed and possibly whatever else he may be doing. His addiction to weed is only prolonging or delaying his emotional, spiritual, vocational, development to real fatherhood. Whenever a person places their drug of choice before the happiness of their family, their career goals and aspirations They are addicted. Additionally a side effect of weed is amotivational syndrome. The person seems to loose almost all of their drive to achieve, they seem to be almost lazy, and forgetful. They usually become more complacent and will procrastinate more and more
As soon as he gets help with his drug problem and deal with the challenges of adulthood and you get help for yourself to stop enabling him the sooner the two of you can move forward with your lives. And your child's life will be better also with a father that is there for him in all aspects of his life.
yep, not worth having him around sorry. he's not doing anything for you or your son so if he can't pull his socks up, ditch him. sounds like you are already surviving without him just fine.
My grandaughter of 2 is a picky eater,?
Her mothr rather than prepare proper food for her, (my son does when he is with the child) the mother is diagonized manic depressive, she is always taking a pill , saying she cannot function with out this medication, but she is a marijuana smoker, and I saw it in her glasscase, but my son said she smokes, ,,,, but being the grandmother, I went to pick up the grandaughter, the mother does not drive, cook, shop for groceries, and just got fired from her job as a waitress for being drunk at 5am at the restaurant,she worked at for 7 years. she is 36, he is 31,,, It is their first child, and I have been there a lot helping out, but when I went over the other day, the baby was sitting alone ihn her highchair, with a waffle, cold, and the mother saying she has to sit untill she eats it, I sat beside her, then smelled that she had messed her pants, so how long she had been sitting there is my concern The mother thinks spanking is okey,.Yesterday , she said noone uses libraires, I am worried sick, I am university trained, but to keep this up, seeing this lazy woman, do nothing aroung the house, and I think she is abusing the child, help me with your comments, my son is great, but protects the mother is I say anything, help me do the right thing, I have no more patience for the mother,My grandaughter of 2 is a picky eater,?
Your son will need to intervene. You should not let him off the hook so fast-if he is so great he should step up and take full care. I don't think the picky eater thing is really what your are after.time controlled application running
Your son will need to intervene. You should not let him off the hook so fast-if he is so great he should step up and take full care. I don't think the picky eater thing is really what your are after.
What wrong with this man?
He just came out of Piggy Phase drug rehab and he relapsed but telling me he isn't going to smoke the marijuana again. When he leave to go to work early in the afternoon I don't know where he go before getting to work. he work from 4:pm to 10:pm as a porter. Last week, he got pay 700. and on sunday he is broke. He didn't pay no bills because he say let me pay it next week. That is the second time he did this. If he don't pay the bill this week, he know he is out. He gone to the store and stay for hour just to get one soda.Sometime he gone down stair to smoke because he is not allowed to smoke in my apartment. I warned him if I find him doing drug again after giving him another chance for the second time, there isn't anything left in me. See I love him, but no longer in love with him and he isn't doing anything to improve out relationship. Instead he want things to be a bed of rose just like that after what he did, the crack,stealing, infedity and more. No I am not going through the hell again and might as well live by myself. He think something wrong with me because he say you forgave me but don't show it. I show it in many ways. I gave him a place to stay, I support him, I heal him when he is sick, I am the cook,the cleaner and more. He want things to be like it was before he relapsed-loving. I can't love him like before, because he cheated with five women when he was on drugs and two all through the first and second years of our marriage. I can't even sleep with him. It hard. I still feel like he dirty, because while in the program and he was giving passes to leave and visit family and friends, he somehow got VD and since I find out about it, I don't trust him. I asked him to tell me the truth and I will forgive him, but he claims he got it from when he relapsed to drugs. But I find out he was going from one health department to another. Now he think something wrong with me because I won't has sex with him. It is not me it him. Why he carry condom in his pocket? How scratches get on his back? and why he come home smelling like perfume and sex? He contiune to deny any wrong doing. I feel he is afraid of telling methe true out of fear of losing me. There is something wrong with him. He hide his wallet and his pay stub and more. Now tell me is it me or something wrong with him?What wrong with this man?
There is something wrong with you...
You are the one allowing this low-life to be in your life...
There is something wrong with you...
You are the one allowing this low-life to be in your life...
Should i try to go back with my boyfriend?
ok i have been dating mike for 5 months now. i have a little girl, her father doesnt know her l. im a single mom.. so the first thing i have always looked first before getting in a relationship is if the guy likes my lil girl. and how much patience he has with her. she is my number one priority ,so far he has done great. my lil girl loves him. and i can tell he loves her as well.i already had the chance to meet his family and had fun together. the problem here is that hes addicted to marijuana, and its starting to drink alcohol more often. he goes to school, .i love spending time with him.... i dont trust him though. so i always think hes doing something bad when im not there,he doesnt hide his cell phone from me.. he gave me a key from his house, and gave me his password for facebook. the reason why i dont trust him is that the first month that we started dating after we met 4 days later. this girl texted me and said he was sleeping with her.. so i confronted that to him and he said yes that it was true, and that he was also having sex with his neighbor...., he said he was really sorry .he he went after me. we started dating jan 8. so he was cheating on me for that whole jan month. and its funny cuz he tells his friends that he was never cheating on me, that we started dating feb 3. he even tells me that we started dating on feb 3, but i know it was jan 8 . hes fooling himself cuz we celebrate every 8 of the month,i just think he tells me this so he wont feel bad for what he did with the cheating, maybe? after that i havent seen anything bad from him, with girls, i ive seen text of girls, but nothing to be worried about . he doesnt go to partys or clubs, he just likes to kick it in his house ..the neighbor he was having sex the first month we dated doesnt live there anymore. he wants me to give him my trust back , but its very hard....i dont know if im exagerating with him and when he gets me mad i always scream and tell him why is he cheating on me, even though i dont have evidence that he is cheating on me....i tell him every day'; what girl did u bring,'; etc, and stuff like that. ive tried to trust him, it just seems hard, because hes addicted to marijuana like i said at the beginning. hes a very calm person. when hes high hes calm too..his mood doesnt change from when hes out of drugs,hes the same person,its just that when he gets high hes tired.he has made me cry alot of times for the fact that i come by surprise in the morning to his house and the nights before he dranks i beg him not to drink alcohol, and i see lots of bottles of beer. when i get there, and his sleeping at 10 am.so i get there pissed off cuz i c his cell phone, and all the messages where about pills, and marijuana , alcohol, and ciggaretes. especially a day he had to go to school..i told him its ok for him to drink with his friends like on the weekends but hes trying to make it an everyday thing. so those things make me not trust him, and not believe when he tells me hes not cheating anymore...i know hes a good guy after all. he does care about us my daughter and i,we cook together for his friends, he says he wants to be with me for a long time, i do too.i love him very much, its just that addiction, that im worried about.he has told me that we should start going to church, but we havent yet.i would love that. so yesterday i broke up with him. and i dont know if i should give him some time to think about what hes doing,and give myself a chance to learn how to trust him, and c if he could do something about his addiction.? i really want him back, i was the one that broke up. i saw his pain in his face.. what should i doo,? please help me.Should i try to go back with my boyfriend?
Marijuana is your ';problem'...I was involved with a guy who smoke pot. Now, we do not make choices for you this is your own decisions. We can guide you and hope that someones comments will brighten your trauma. You love your daughter well its the pot or losing your daughter. Lets pretend a scenario happens that this guy happens to be at your house and suddenly he starts to sell pot at your house than the cops come raid your place well they can take your daughter into child protective services for child endangerment. I know men are hard to get rid of but we women do not like to be alone. You must seek Al non for alcoholics and there's one for drug users. You cannot force this guy to stop or go to church. I would be more concerned for your daughter than this guy. He's sad for other reasons so he's hiding behind the alcohol and pot. I know he seems to love you but addicts do not know ';how'; to love until they seek help and realize that its never too late to have love. Seek God and plea with God for your guidance and protection. God has our plans all planned out so this guy is just waiting for God. Leave him alone and not words you or I want to hear. I am still keeping in contact with my ex. Well, not totally in contact as he no longer wants me cause of all his dilemmas. Yes, we have invested 18 years and I am always going to love him. I have now given it to the Lord but I do struggle with worries of him and his drugs. He only sleeps with these girls cause of the drug chemicals that make their sex drive go up. I know I have seen it and been through it with my ex. Yes, he may love you but not the way you want him to love you. I say keep hold of him and try to help when he wants it not when you want it. I feel we are all quick to turn our backs of drug and sexual addicts and alcoholics. They need love, too. For now, I would focus on the well being of your daughter. There are plenty of other men out there when you are ready to let those attached strings go of this guy. Its not easy and it will never be easy even if you do find another man in the next year. You will always have that special bond even if others do not agree. I feel that addicts are just out looking for a free fix. That's what happen to the guy I was seeing when he would cheat. It was all about drugs/pot, etc. Not about you. Be strong for your daughter and yourself. Seek groups or seek help in understanding the emotional binding of addicts. They manipulate and they can make you want to hear what you want to hear or believe in what they do or say. I am 48 not some young teen. It applies to all ages what a woman or man goes through with addicts. There is still hope for recovery but the recovery has to begin with him wanting it not you wanting it. I hope this helps or at least gets you to thinking about the best options for you. Just vent it out no matter if it sounds like a broken record. One day it will get easier but for now you will be attached even if you say you no longer have contact with him. We do not know your situation as we place our comments but I am hoping you have given yourself space from this guy. Best of luck and God Bless You...may the blood of Jesus run over this guy for protection and salvation I ask of this in the Lord Jesus name..amenShould i try to go back with my boyfriend?
no, don't go back to him
answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
Hun, i dont think everyone is going to read all of that! But i would say NO.
i didnt read all of that but, yea i say no,
Ok. I didnt read all of it but once i got to the part where you dont trust him i stopped. if you dont trust him, then dont be with him. he smoke weed and drinks. do you really want your little girl to grow up thinking that it is fine to do those things? think about it.
Did you read what you wrote after you wrote it? Seriously, you have a laundry list of reasons why this guy shouldn't be in your life and NEVER should have been let near your daughter, yet you are honestly asking people what you should do?
I think that if you are even considering taking this guy back you should give up custody of your daughter, find her a great home with parents who know the answers to questions like the one you asked and can see a loser a mile away.
are you an idiot the answer is already in your question, get rid of him before he gets rid of you, drugs and children don't ever mix and if your daughter grows up around that then you knw the consequences of that
Marijuana is your ';problem'...I was involved with a guy who smoke pot. Now, we do not make choices for you this is your own decisions. We can guide you and hope that someones comments will brighten your trauma. You love your daughter well its the pot or losing your daughter. Lets pretend a scenario happens that this guy happens to be at your house and suddenly he starts to sell pot at your house than the cops come raid your place well they can take your daughter into child protective services for child endangerment. I know men are hard to get rid of but we women do not like to be alone. You must seek Al non for alcoholics and there's one for drug users. You cannot force this guy to stop or go to church. I would be more concerned for your daughter than this guy. He's sad for other reasons so he's hiding behind the alcohol and pot. I know he seems to love you but addicts do not know ';how'; to love until they seek help and realize that its never too late to have love. Seek God and plea with God for your guidance and protection. God has our plans all planned out so this guy is just waiting for God. Leave him alone and not words you or I want to hear. I am still keeping in contact with my ex. Well, not totally in contact as he no longer wants me cause of all his dilemmas. Yes, we have invested 18 years and I am always going to love him. I have now given it to the Lord but I do struggle with worries of him and his drugs. He only sleeps with these girls cause of the drug chemicals that make their sex drive go up. I know I have seen it and been through it with my ex. Yes, he may love you but not the way you want him to love you. I say keep hold of him and try to help when he wants it not when you want it. I feel we are all quick to turn our backs of drug and sexual addicts and alcoholics. They need love, too. For now, I would focus on the well being of your daughter. There are plenty of other men out there when you are ready to let those attached strings go of this guy. Its not easy and it will never be easy even if you do find another man in the next year. You will always have that special bond even if others do not agree. I feel that addicts are just out looking for a free fix. That's what happen to the guy I was seeing when he would cheat. It was all about drugs/pot, etc. Not about you. Be strong for your daughter and yourself. Seek groups or seek help in understanding the emotional binding of addicts. They manipulate and they can make you want to hear what you want to hear or believe in what they do or say. I am 48 not some young teen. It applies to all ages what a woman or man goes through with addicts. There is still hope for recovery but the recovery has to begin with him wanting it not you wanting it. I hope this helps or at least gets you to thinking about the best options for you. Just vent it out no matter if it sounds like a broken record. One day it will get easier but for now you will be attached even if you say you no longer have contact with him. We do not know your situation as we place our comments but I am hoping you have given yourself space from this guy. Best of luck and God Bless You...may the blood of Jesus run over this guy for protection and salvation I ask of this in the Lord Jesus name..amenShould i try to go back with my boyfriend?
no, don't go back to him
answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
Hun, i dont think everyone is going to read all of that! But i would say NO.
i didnt read all of that but, yea i say no,
Ok. I didnt read all of it but once i got to the part where you dont trust him i stopped. if you dont trust him, then dont be with him. he smoke weed and drinks. do you really want your little girl to grow up thinking that it is fine to do those things? think about it.
Did you read what you wrote after you wrote it? Seriously, you have a laundry list of reasons why this guy shouldn't be in your life and NEVER should have been let near your daughter, yet you are honestly asking people what you should do?
I think that if you are even considering taking this guy back you should give up custody of your daughter, find her a great home with parents who know the answers to questions like the one you asked and can see a loser a mile away.
are you an idiot the answer is already in your question, get rid of him before he gets rid of you, drugs and children don't ever mix and if your daughter grows up around that then you knw the consequences of that
Top Secret Clearance for USMC MOS 02xx?
I've recently DEP'd into the Marine Corps and have signed a contract for 02xx. For either of the MOS's that are available you need a Top Secret Clearance. However, I've previously used marijuana. I used it pretty frequently for about 6 months stopping about 8-9 months ago with 1 use about 3 months ago. Will this disqualify me? I've finally learned how stupid it is to smoke marijuana as getting caught with it could close so many doors to my life and no longer have any desire to smoke or be around it. I've even distanced myself from friends that are constant users.
I've also never had any run ins with the law except a one-way ticket that was ACD'd. I've asked my recruiter, he says I'll have no problem but I just wanted a second opinion.
Also, if I don't get clearance will my asvab score play into me not being made into a cook? (not that theirs anything wrong with being a cook, just not for me)Top Secret Clearance for USMC MOS 02xx?
Did you disclose this use to your recruiter and is it noted in your record this is very important.
If not and they do the check and find out you are done, it makes you enlistment a fraud and say good bye period.
When I got my TS they went back to my grade school and to all my neighbors and old friends...ensure this is in your record that you used...and if you say once and they find out different...it could spell real trouble for you. And yes your ASVAB score will play in any job you get.
Good luck, and let me know when you become a brother and a marine.
Simper FiTop Secret Clearance for USMC MOS 02xx?
Today they normally don't even investigate for a security clearance since 911 they just get big piles of them so they turn around and say ';sign it Bob.'; The investigation is now done through a automated system of questionnaires that the Office Personnel Management has now been charged with and if they read your envelope they just skim.
If they really do your polygraph there will be a problem, and if you ever piss out after the fact you will get 24 to 72 months.
If you didn't tell them you better pray they don't find out. If you did tell them things still don't look very good.
I believe cooks in the Marine Corps went the way of the buggy whip !
I've also never had any run ins with the law except a one-way ticket that was ACD'd. I've asked my recruiter, he says I'll have no problem but I just wanted a second opinion.
Also, if I don't get clearance will my asvab score play into me not being made into a cook? (not that theirs anything wrong with being a cook, just not for me)Top Secret Clearance for USMC MOS 02xx?
Did you disclose this use to your recruiter and is it noted in your record this is very important.
If not and they do the check and find out you are done, it makes you enlistment a fraud and say good bye period.
When I got my TS they went back to my grade school and to all my neighbors and old friends...ensure this is in your record that you used...and if you say once and they find out different...it could spell real trouble for you. And yes your ASVAB score will play in any job you get.
Good luck, and let me know when you become a brother and a marine.
Simper FiTop Secret Clearance for USMC MOS 02xx?
Today they normally don't even investigate for a security clearance since 911 they just get big piles of them so they turn around and say ';sign it Bob.'; The investigation is now done through a automated system of questionnaires that the Office Personnel Management has now been charged with and if they read your envelope they just skim.
If they really do your polygraph there will be a problem, and if you ever piss out after the fact you will get 24 to 72 months.
If you didn't tell them you better pray they don't find out. If you did tell them things still don't look very good.
I believe cooks in the Marine Corps went the way of the buggy whip !
How to get my partner to stop hanging out with one of his friends?
Now I'm not being nasty I am asking this because my partner whom I love very much has a friend that isn't very nice, and now that I have said he is not welcome here or next time he walks in and I'm cooking he's going to wear the fry pan I am worried he will try to break me and my man up. This guy smokes marijuana, barely works, still lives at home with his mother, he's a womanizer, in theory and practical and lies to everyone all the time just to make himself look good. My partner has known him a long time and I think he has become blind at seeing how his friend has changed. I have had other women tell me a lot of nasty stories about my partner's friend and a month ago my partner and I got into an argument about nothing really and this guy put his 2 cents in and I told his mate to leave, then he offered for my man to go out with him for pizza and leaving me to it so to speak, when my man should have stayed and sorted it out with me. Then after my man had gone out with him, the guy was sending me nasty texts. I have never liked the guy, my partner and I do not smoke marijuana and this guy will come around to our house under the influence of the stuff, every time he comes around, he eats our food, drinks our alcohol when ever we have it in the house, he never buys his own, anything. Hence why I said about the fry pan as he will always turn up when I'm cooking so I will be asked to cook extra for the guy. Now he has started phoning up when he thinks I'm not here and sly things and dumb excuses for my man to go and see him when my man works long hours, enjoys his sleep and my partner honestly doesn't have anything in common with the guy any more. What do I do?How to get my partner to stop hanging out with one of his friends?
You can't force your partner to quit hanging out with him unless you say, ';It's either me or him.';
What you should do is talk to your man and tell him how you feel about the friend. Say that you don't like the friend being around here because he acts like he lives in the house and gets involved in the conflicts that don't concern him. Say what you said here.
Try not to say it in a way thats accusing, just be calm and relaxed.
As for the guy, block his number from your phone and don't pick up the phone if he's calling the house. When he knocks on the door, don't answer either.
I hope that things work out. If not I guess you will have to find a way to deal with the friend either by telling him yourself that you don't want him around or something.
All the best!!!
Please answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>How to get my partner to stop hanging out with one of his friends?
if your partner isn't influenced by this guy's lifestyle, and they are friends then i'd just ignore the guy. if your partner IS influenced and his behavior changes when he's around the friend, then maybe you two could discuss it.
since you do not wish to cook for him or give him anything to drink, and since his presence annoys you, perhaps you could tell your partner how you feel? I'd say you feel used by the guy, and that is a good place to start.
if he came to my house when i was cooking, i'd tell him i was getting ready to eat in peace, and he'd have to leave. he'd not be able to drink my alcohol (even though i don't even drink) either.
You can't force your partner to quit hanging out with him unless you say, ';It's either me or him.';
What you should do is talk to your man and tell him how you feel about the friend. Say that you don't like the friend being around here because he acts like he lives in the house and gets involved in the conflicts that don't concern him. Say what you said here.
Try not to say it in a way thats accusing, just be calm and relaxed.
As for the guy, block his number from your phone and don't pick up the phone if he's calling the house. When he knocks on the door, don't answer either.
I hope that things work out. If not I guess you will have to find a way to deal with the friend either by telling him yourself that you don't want him around or something.
All the best!!!
Please answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>How to get my partner to stop hanging out with one of his friends?
if your partner isn't influenced by this guy's lifestyle, and they are friends then i'd just ignore the guy. if your partner IS influenced and his behavior changes when he's around the friend, then maybe you two could discuss it.
since you do not wish to cook for him or give him anything to drink, and since his presence annoys you, perhaps you could tell your partner how you feel? I'd say you feel used by the guy, and that is a good place to start.
if he came to my house when i was cooking, i'd tell him i was getting ready to eat in peace, and he'd have to leave. he'd not be able to drink my alcohol (even though i don't even drink) either.
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